Share Goals and Check-ins
Kwilt sharing is built for private support around a specific Goal. It is meant to deepen accountability with people you choose, not create a public feed.
Share one Goal at a time
A shared Goal gives another person context for the commitment you are carrying. Share when their encouragement, coordination, coaching, or witness would help you keep showing up.
Sharing a Goal does not make your whole Kwilt system public. Keep the invitation scoped to the support relationship that actually helps.
- Invite people who are part of the real commitment.
- Keep sensitive Arcs, notes, and unrelated work private.
- Use sharing for accountability, not performance.
Check in with approval
Check-ins are user-authored progress signals. Kwilt may help draft or recover a check-in moment, but the update should remain yours before it is sent.
This keeps support honest and low-pressure. A useful check-in can be small: what moved, what got hard, what you are trying next.
Use pending drafts as recoverable prompts
When progress happens on a shared Goal, Kwilt can prepare a check-in draft instead of sending anything automatically. The draft can collect useful context from completed activities or Focus Sessions, then wait for your approval.
You can edit, send, skip, or dismiss a draft. The support relationship stays real because the final update is still yours.
Read partner activity as context
Goal partner surfaces should help the shared commitment feel alive without becoming a feed to maintain. Look for the signal that helps the Goal move, then return to the work.
If a support circle stops helping, adjust or remove it. Kwilt should keep shared accountability reversible.
Reply without turning it into a feed
Goal updates and replies are there to support the commitment, not to compete for attention. React or reply when it helps encouragement, coordination, or accountability.
If the shared surface starts to feel performative, make the next update smaller and more concrete.